Yes, Sandra Bullock won the ACADEMY AWARD for Best Female Actress this weekend for the inspirational movie “The Blind Side.” I saw the movie three times and enjoyed thrice as nice. However, this post will not be about the Hollywood hit or modern day cinema classic.
Special props go out to my collge friend and fellow Evangelist Clayton King who has consistently reminded all whom he comes in contact with to PROTECT THEIR PASTOR. Jesus is our Coach but the pastor of your church is the Quarterback. At times, I have been too harsh on ministers (even as one) and for that I apologize when wrong. Like Jesus, I am short with Pharisees but show great grace to pastors, people and even prostitutes in need of a touch from God.
Without question, the Shepherd of the Flock may live “by faith” but still lives as flesh. The fact is, we chase Divinity but are still sidelined as humanity until we get our “Glorified Body” in Glory. Ministers are no different. It is easy to play arm-chair quarterback from the comfort of our couch or Monday morning moderator by the water cooler at work and continually criticize how the QB (aka senior pastor or youth minister) missed the “open man” en route to a game scoring drive. Like it or not, 265 lbs line-backers want to bury you on national television and since they sprint like a cheetah one doesn’t always see the “wide open” receiver. Magnify that with the barrage of temptations, stress of life, critics from deacons, complaints from Mrs Jones and un-ending undermining from an un-controlled, callous tongue our pastors deal with more than concussions. Worse, the repercussions are so riveting and damaging that many ministers are throwing in the towel at record rates (not just interceptions).
The “blind side” is the area of the helmet where peripheral vision is blocked and one doesn’t see the heat sinking missles coming from the corner (or worse, BEHIND). What sparked my desire more than ever to touch briefly on this subject today is a tweet RICK WARREN posted on Twitter tonight. He noted he was at a funeral today for a pastor in Texas whom committed suicide. This should not be. How tragic! Years ago, I heard an evangelist say: “How you love, honor, pray, support and protect your pastor is a direct gauge to read how your walk with God is at the present time.” If that doesn’t prick your heart – CPR won’t either.
Like Jesus, I have no time for Pharisees but preachers are precious to me. Actually, they are priceless. In ministry, we either get too much credit or not enough and honestly, I dont have the answers how to find the balance. However, I do know that almost all the ministers I know and been blessed to preach for have a deep love for God and compassion for people. Sadly, but some (if not all) at times find themselves empty emotionally, drained physically, weak spiritually and on fumes financially. Ministers are known to give and give and give but (sad but true) feel as if no one either understands them or folks don’t know how to minister to them. A recent survey showed the alarming rate that 87% of senior pastors feel like they don’t have one real friend that they can confide and just be themselves. Yes, it is true that we find only one road to Heaven and that is through faith in Christ but it shouldn’t be a ONE WAY street for our pastors.
My humble request to you this post is to do three things: 1) READ my college friend, Evangelist Clayton King’s blog on PROTECTING YOUR PASTOR www.ClaytonKing.com 2) PRAY to God and ask how YOU could in the very near future minister to your minister. Reach out, invite them to dinner, send a gift, pay their utility bill out of the blue one month (some of them are in the red), mow their grass, baby-sit their child(ren) so they may have a date with their spouse. In a nutshell, show some love to the ones who loved you and lead you to Jesus on a daily, weekly, monthly and yearly basis.
They will be shocked, you will be blessed and Jesus will be pleased. No more preachers need to retire prematurely, no more clergy need to die tragically because they felt unloved and Christians can emulate Christ like never before by practicing what their preacher preaches and to love not only the “least” but those who love you the most: Jesus and your pastor. 3) Maybe send them on the cruise I have the privilege to speak on May 30 – June 4, 2011, with CASTING CROWNS, Dr Johnny Hunt, Pastor John Hagee, Jentezen Franklin, Jason Crabb & others for a much needed PASTOR APPRECIATION gift for some much deserved Rest & Relaxation. Its a tax-deductible gift and they can relax in the Sun while being refreshed in the Son. Contact me directly for more info Frankmotiv8s@aol.com and CRUISE INFO www.CruisewithaCause.org
In closing, I want to give a special shout out to my wife, family, parents and countless friends (yes- YOU) who pray for me on a regular basis. We do take some shots and have had our share of horrific hits but we sincerely appreciate your ongoing prayers. These ministers (like me) are just JARS OF CLAY promoting the only God who got up on THIRD DAY and when we said MERCY ME came to the POINT OF GRACE and now just a NEWSBOY with a NEWSONG promoting the Prince of Peace & King of kings! And when we meet Jesus we will be CASTING CROWNS at His Feet because He is the reason we dedicate this short season of our lives. To the contrary what some critics may suggest ministry is not about us but ALL ABOUT HIM (Jesus). We walk by faith and not by sight and that is why we need each other to not only protect our pastor but look out for THE BLIND SIDE.
Frank, I went to highland park in chatt this weekend. Visited my youth pastor the Mahans who work there now. It was awesome and felt like home. I heard you had a great day yesterday preaching for my Dad. I know he needed the break. So glad you could be there to preach but I know he was torn because he wanted to hear you preach but they enjoyed a break.
amen amen ! I so agree
Amen, Thank you Brother… 1 Corinthians 9:3-16
Actually Frank, I will be taking a Minister/Evangelist out to dinner Saturday….those are wise words you shared. Be Blessed!!
We Southern Baptist Preachers like Fried Chicken, Potato salad, and Nanner Pudding that’s Southern for a Diabetic’s nightmare. lol
Frank, what would it take to get you to come preach in FL?
Frank, that was a great msg at church yesterday! my son Ryan got alot out of it too – that really touch me most of the time he is somewhere else. but he told me how much he liked it. It was right on time. word in due season. Thanks for being real.
Frank, I never heard that message you preached before on Sunday and it was as good as anytime I have ever heard you. It was awesome brother – I am really proud of you!
Mr Shelton, we are pleased to share with you that the YOUTH RALLY that you are preaching in Philadelphia, PA is finally set in stone. Its November 5-6, 2010 and its going to be at the Hotel Conference Center in downtown Philly! You will preach both nights and we’re so EXCITED about you coming to preach to our group. God bless
Frank, love your heart brother and we will get you back to preach sometime soon. COUNT ME IN ON THE CRUISE!!
Fank, Denise and I, loved your message this weekend!! Man, I didnt know if to cry, shout, dance or get up and run but man, over the years I have always enjoyed hearing you speak but never have I seen you preach with such precision and power like you did this weekend. You flat out preached!! I don’t think a dry eye was in the church.
Having lunch with you after all was even better. When you preached at the National Full Gospel Businessmen’s Fellowship as a keynote two years ago in VA was excellent but yesterday was something else. God has really given you a gift, a talent and a rare ability to connect with people. Don’t ever quit! I have never heard anyone like you. God is all over you and you’re ON FIRE for Jesus!
Mr Shelton, it was great seeing you and your son today at Chick-fil-A! I was standing behind you in line to order when the crowd of people were talking with you and I thought I recognized your voice. When you turned around I knew it was you!!
You spoke at my son’s UPWARD basketball ceremony last year at the Baptist church in Waldorf. We have followed you online since that day and I was so dissapointed that you were not the speaker again this past weekend. You are incredible!!! We attend NEW LIFE and have told tons of folks (even our pastoral staff) that we absolutely must get you to come speak one Sunday at our church. You are AWESOME!!!!!!!!!
It seems that you are everywhere and we pray continued blessings for you, your family and ministry. God bless you
A great bog, you have hit it on the head. Keep up the good work and we can all
pray for each other. Blessings my man.
Dave
Hey Frank, great blog. This should be shared with every church in America. The men of God you mentioned are very worthy heroes. Let’s keep lifting one another up!
Frank what a great post! I will share this and encourage everyone to read. Bless you brother!
Awesome Frank!!
Dr. Super Fantastic Incredible Amazing Frank:
Brother, your notes always bless and encourage me. I sure rejoice in how the Lord is blessing and using you. I am amazed at all the places you are speaking – and I know the cruise with all those unknowns will be hard!!
The meeting in Texas with Dr. Rick Scarborough was canceled since he has resigned his church. It really was a blessing to me for it gives me a little breathing room in my schedule.
Please pray for me. I will be having one of my knees replaced May 4 in Huntsville, AL. Pray it will go well and that the Lord will help me to recover soon.
I love you, Dr. Super Fantastic Frank, and I don’t want you to ever forget this one single thing: WHEN I GROW UP I WANT TO BE JUST LIKE INCREDIBLE FRANK SHELTON!!
Junior
Hello Frank,
What can I say…..THANK YOU…THANK YOU…THANK YOU….You have really blessed me tonight on the show, and I just want to say, I am so grateful. OK, having a youth rally is wonderful. If you can, let me know your availability, and I will look for a venue and we can see about doing this…..I am so excited and I am so very grateful to God for you and your ministry. You truly are a blessing to the Body of Christ. Thank you again ever so much and my prayers are with you, your wife and family during this time of loss.
I will give you a call when you return back from your trip to Guatemala. You are one anointed man of God. I pray you can come minister to our people in Charlottesville, VA sometime soon.
Be blessed
Minister Denise Watson-Smith
Thank you and GOD Bless You Frank…. LOVE The Blind Side… and I am enjoying the message on Blessing Pastor Johnny Hunt and praying for him, which I have been doing faithfully for years now.
Our Pastors do need continuous prayer… they are on the firing line all the time… as are all of the Saints of Christ Jesus of Nazareth sold out and living for Him… it’s not our lives anymore… it’s His Life Lived Through Us! Die to self daily, pick up the Cross Jesus has assigned me and go out looking for His Divine Appointments assigned to me each day! Go GOD!
Frank you are truly a blessing….thank you for all you do my brother, and know you and your family are being prayed for each and everyday……and we will get together one day soon
Blessing to you today and in the days to come
Michael Clark