It came to my attention that Ferlin is a native of Missouri and I learned that this brother from another mother is considered one of the most respected (yet un-recognized) singers in all of Country music.
Buck Owens from “He-Haw” fame apparently had a clause in his contract that he would never, ever follow Ferlin on stage. Why? Because Ferlin was not good but great. The legendary Marty Robbins admired Ferlin immensely and when the one and only Willie Nelson was inducted into the Country Music Hall of Fame to his credit he said in his remarks: “Honestly, I don’t deserve this tonight. Ferlin Husky deserves to be here before me.”
Ironically, Ecclesiastes 9:11 notes: “I returned, and saw under the sun, that the race is not to the swift, nor the battle to the strong, neither yet bread to the wise, nor yet riches to men of understanding, nor yet favour to men of skill; but time and chance happeneth to them all.” The Bible in the next chapter (Ecclesiastes 10:7) says: “I have even seen servants riding horseback like princes–and princes walking like servants!”
One dear friend and prominent preacher who made me vow not to say his name told me: “Frank, folks want you to do well but rarely better than them.” What a sad statement. Ferlin Husky went on to sell 20 Million albums and his classics “Wings on a Dove,” “Gone,” and “Dear John” have touched the hearts of multiplied millions of fans, earned the respect of his peers (even the most recognized names in the field). However, the fact is he despite being loved by so many is still not in the “Hall of Fame.”
Life is peculiar and not always fair. Regardless, of your vocation; if you are promoted or feel demoted remember it is not what man says about you but what God says that matter most.
In life, you may never get the recognition deserved but God settles all accounts. He knows your heart, talent and motives. Sometimes being “by passed” may be a blessing in disguise. Over the years, I have seen some folks get sidetracked with “success” and it derails them thinking it was more them than a great God that opened doors. I have always been an advocate in promoting God and promoting others. Zig Ziglar was right when he said: “What you do for others – God will do for you.” Today, if you are in a position to lend a helping hand, open a door, or mentor someone else like Nike: “JUST DO IT.”
Don’t let pride or ego hold you back from (as Spike Lee would say): “DO THE RIGHT THING.” May we promote others whom are more gifted than us (without feeling threatened) and we are all better for folks whom make us stronger in our giftings. I learned long ago that we don’t have to better than anyone but we should all be better because God allowed our paths to cross. We need to celebrate NOT tolerate them! What a sad indictment when some would not “follow them on stage” but should consider it an honor we got to share the stage with another who is just as passionate about life and their gift.
Ferlin may never make it in the Hall of Fame but if he is in God’s “Hall of Faith” is all that matters. Today, if you are en route to the top or feel kicked like a can we must stay humble because the favor of God is not fair and “time and chance happens to us all.” Someone always deserves the blessing (promotion) just as much as you (and me).
Yes, not all the best are promoted to the top but regardless if you are riding high profesionally or walking low personally (like the prince next to the horse) it is a Biblical fact “Many who are first will be last and MANY LAST WILL BE FIRST.”
Therefore, keep walking, keep working and keep worshipping and like the old hymn Ferlin sang: “He’ll Understand and Say Well Done.”
I can so relate. I have been at the same job for 13 years and have yet to get promoted. However, I know my work is unto the Lord. Thanks for reminding me that its not what others say or see but what God says matters most. I pray that I too hear those words from Jesus: “Well done, thy good and faithful servant.”
Frank, I was excited to read about how God has blessed your ministry through the years. You have been uniquely and wonderfully used by the Lord in many great opportunities that I know have filled your heart.
I would love to have an opportunity to meet you at some time in the future. In the meantime, please know that I will be praying for you and for your ministry.
My name is Mark Pinekenstein. I am the president of the United Methodist Mens group in Lexington Park, MD.
We are having a men’s retreat on March 12-14, 2010 at the West River Retreat Center near Annapolis. I am looking for a speaker for the weekend. We generally start with a short introductory program on Friday night, continue part of the day on Saturday, then end with a session on Sunday morning.
All room and board are furnished. There are usually about 30 or more attendees, all men. Would like to know if you would consider being our retreat speaker?
Frank!!! I found you!! Man, I got saved at a YOUTH RALLY you did in Ohio in 2002. You preached three nights in a row and I got right with God that camp. THOUSAND FOOT KRUTCH played before your message but all I remember was your message on Christ’s Cross and He’s coming back – ARE YOU READY? Man, I was lost and on my way to Hell. I wasn’t ready before I went to camp that year. Frank, I can honestly say I almost remember your message word for word.
Dude, I was on drugs, drinking and sleeping around but God got a hold of me that night. Today, I am married and still loving Jesus. I help with the youth part-time at our church and I want to thank you from the bottom of my heart for your message and ministry. Over the years, I wondered what you were doing. I prayed you were still preaching. Mr Shelton, I have never heard anyone like you. Man, you are like the perfect speaker. You could speak to kids, teens, old people – i bet my two dogs could learn from you!!
Are you coming to Ohio anytime soon? This is great -I can’t believe I tracked you down!!! Your wife is sure pretty and I hope to meet you agin one day. Almost every day I have thought about your smile, passion and the power on you those nights you spoke in Ohio. I thank God for you man. THANK YOU 300% – Jesus and you saved my life.
Well Bro. Frank you are everywhere, I am glad that we are acquainted through facebook. You have a wonderful web site, blog, and a very prestigious photo album. I actually think I meet you at the Southern Baptist Convention, when it was in Pensacola FL. I think seven years ago but I could be mistaken. But what a ministry. God bless !
I bet your excited about next months cruise to Bahamas with Anthony Evans. I have heard some great things about your mininstry. Blessings to you and your family. Thanks for sharing Jesus
WOW! You hit the nail on the head this time my friend! So true, about professional jealousy in the work place and sadly, it appears in ministry too.
Love that line you wrote: ” I learned long ago that we don’t have to better than anyone but we should all be better because God allowed our paths to cross. We need to celebrate NOT tolerate them!”
Thanks for being transparent with your weekly posts. They have enriched me more than once. Ever come to Arkansas?
Brother, you were a HUGE HIT in Poplar Bluff, MO. Folks are still talking about your message and that school seriously wants you to fly back soon and speak to them.
God told me to tell you that you can do stand up at the Pearly Gates. You were hilarious. Love you bro
As i told Frank just the other day as God gave me this,it is not the distance any of us travel, but the directions we take.Make sure your directions are from God and not anyone else,not even the preacher you listen to.God will direct your paths,he said so himself.It is better to be a nobody and have a place to go, then to be a somebody and travel a lot.Take direction and it will take you the distance.www.haroldwillettministries.org.
I think i have a friend that lives in popular bluff and i hope to here from you soon.God bless you.As Frank puts it Go with God,you can not go wrong,his direction is always the right way to travel.
I am honored to know that you think of me as a hero of yours, since you are one of the most impressive young men I have ever met.
Hey Frank! Hope all is well. Glad all your plans and dreams are being realized and lived out. …just a question…. Is it just coincidental that Ferlin sort of has an Elvis-esque look?…..I know you’re a BIG fan of Elvis and Sly Stallone….
ohhh…and also….congrats to you and Ruth on the weight loss!! That’s really
a huge accomplishment…lots of discipline required! I consider you an old
friend Frank and I am soooo happy for you and your family ….just wanted to let you know that….and that you got to have another child and preach all over and have the life you’ve always wanted…so awesome!
You seem like an inspiration to many :o) (and always good with those one liners!)”
Thanks Frank…I need that today!
Fort Myers is a twenty minute drive!!! Where exactly will you be preaching??